When you’ve been working with clients for a while (something like 10 years!), you start to notice common beliefs that people tend to hold when it comes to exercise: that one should be motivated and look forward to training.
As I’ve said before, training is hard labour. Who wants to do hard labour these days unless you have to. Thank you to all lads who laid the bricks in our house, my hands are just too delicate for such things. But, whilst hard labour is well…hard, it does give our lives great benefit – and to do the hard things isn’t motivating or fun.

This isn’t going to blow down in the wind, is it?
Motivation:
Do some people get motivated to exercise? Sure, I call them weirdos. When I wake up at 05:45 on a cold English Monday morning, do you think I’m motivated to work out? Obviously not. Do I enjoy the 5th rep of a gruelling set of deadlifts? Definitely not. How do I do it then? I just do it (I’m not sponsored by Niké yet but it’s only a matter of time).
It’s not that I’m more disciplined than you, it’s that I’ve trained my mind to focus on something different and now it’s become a habit. I am thinking about how I feel immediately afterwards: a sense of achievement (I did the hard thing! yay!), what my body looks like (if you’ve stuck with it for longer than 6 weeks), feels like and how it performs day to day. Without mental training, our brain is going to focus on the cold weather outside, the hard work in the gym, fumbling around trying to find our neon sweatband and trying not to wake the wife. Once you’ve been doing it for long enough and you’ve seen the day to day benefits, it just becomes one of the many positive things you do.

We all know this guy.
Discipline:
Whenever I mention discipline to clients, I worry their immediate response is that they feel they lack discipline and that they should have the discipline of a Navy seal. That’s not a realistic starting point, considering the SEAL is the elite of the elite and the rest of us… forget to make the bed. Instead, it’s more helpful to think about how we can build discipline when it comes to certain behaviours we want to carry out.
Building Discipline:
You may never be motivated or find impactful daily errands fun, but is everything important in your life motivating or fun? Probably not. We just do it because we understand that if we don’t do it, the trade off isn’t worth it. I know if I don’t go to the gym, the trade off is I’m weaker, less muscular, and less healthy and it’s not a trade-off I’m willing to make. So, do the behaviour that feels hard and uncomfortable (it should feel this way, at least at first) and know that with enough reps, you’ll see and feel the benefits and then you can focus my mind on that, rather than on what’s hard. Of course, hiring a coach to help you with the initial difficulty of starting will make things easier for you but there are many roads to a healthier life.

I didn’t have time to colour him Navy for the joke to work
Progressive Overload Principle:
You’re not going to go into the gym and squatting 100kg on day one. You start off with practising the movement pattern at first, then once you can do it well you then add an empty bar to your back, then in the next session you add 5kg and so on. The same principle is true for habits. If you start too hard, you’re setting yourself up for failure.
So, watching Rocky might get you motivated once or twice, but it’s not the thing that’s going to keep you going back into the ring.










